Custody and Access

Child Custody Lawyer

Child Custody Lawyer Toronto

(Replaced with Parenting Orders, Decision Making Responsibility and Parenting Time as of July 1, 2020, with the amendments to the Divorce Act)

Children are our most precious gift and need our protection, guidance and strength.

The “maximum contact principle” guides Judges when deciding how much time the children will spend with each parent. However, sometimes, demands for increased access is economically driven. Should the access spouse have the children 40% of the time, then their monthly child support obligations are often reduced.

I have been able to successfully advocate the true narrative of the spouses’ involvement, pre-separation, or lack thereof. I will not allow my clients to be disrespected, undermined, manipulated, or strong armed while navigating a resolution by way of Separation Agreement, or if necessary, through the Court process.

Philosophically, I am a true believer that children deserve a healthy relationship with both parents, however, if one parent is either incapable or refuses to put the childrens’ needs above their own, then that becomes a “game changer” and I will, on behalf of my client, advocate ethically, passionately, and with all of my energy to ensure that the children are protected from the harming spouse.

Parental alienation, on the other hand, is abusive, shameful, harmful, and I will work tirelessly to prevent it from occurring or from continuing. It has to be one of the most egregious forms of narcissistic behavior and I have and will continue to be a champion for my clients.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How is child custody decided in Ontario? 

In Ontario, child custody — now called decision-making responsibility — is decided based on the best interests of the child. The court considers each parent’s ability to provide care, the child’s needs and stability, and any history of conflict or safety concerns. In high-conflict cases, strong legal advocacy is essential to presenting a clear and credible picture of your role as a parent. 

What is the difference between custody and access in Ontario? 

“Custody and access” are older terms still commonly used, but Ontario family law now uses more precise language. Decision-making responsibility refers to who makes major decisions about the child’s life; parenting time refers to when the child is physically with each parent. This distinction affects how court orders are structured and enforced. 

What is decision-making responsibility in Ontario family law? 

Decision-making responsibility is a parent’s authority to make major choices about a child’s schooling, medical care, religion, and overall well-being. It can be shared jointly or granted solely to one parent, depending on what the court determines is in the child’s best interests. Where there is significant conflict or poor communication, shared decision-making may not be appropriate. 

What is parenting time in Ontario family law? 

Parenting time is the period a child spends in each parent’s care. During their parenting time, a parent is responsible for day-to-day decisions. Arrangements range from equal shared schedules to more structured or limited access depending on the child’s circumstances and the parents’ ability to cooperate. 

How do I get full custody of my child in Ontario? 

“Full custody” typically means primary decision-making responsibility and the majority of parenting time. To obtain this, you must show the arrangement is in your child’s best interests — which may involve demonstrating your history as the primary caregiver, the other parent’s limited involvement, or concerns about their parenting capacity. Each case is fact-specific and benefits from experienced legal advocacy. 

How do I get sole custody in Ontario? 

Sole custody — now called sole decision-making responsibility — means one parent makes all major decisions for the child. Courts consider this where there is serious conflict, lack of cooperation, or a demonstrated risk to the child’s well-being. Because courts generally prefer shared responsibility when workable, sole decision-making requires strong, well-documented evidence. 

What do courts consider in a child custody case in Ontario? 

Ontario courts focus entirely on the best interests of the child, examining each parent’s ability to provide care, the child’s relationship with each parent, stability of the home environment, and any history of harmful behaviour. A parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent is also a significant factor — unless doing so would cause harm. 

At what age can a child decide which parent to live with in Ontario? 

There is no set age in Ontario at which a child’s preference becomes determinative. As children mature, their views are given more weight, but preference is only one factor among many. The court will always assess whether the preferred arrangement is genuinely in the child’s best interests, not simply what the child wants. 

Can a parent deny access to the other parent in Ontario? 

A parent cannot withhold parenting time in Ontario without a valid legal reason. Unjustified denial of access can seriously damage a parent’s position in court. If genuine safety concerns exist, legal advice should be sought immediately to ensure any restriction is properly documented and defensible. 

Can a child custody lawyer help with parental alienation in Ontario? 

Yes. Parental alienation — where one parent undermines the child’s relationship with the other — is taken seriously by Ontario courts and can have lasting effects on children. A custody lawyer can help document alienating behaviour, present evidence effectively, and advocate for protective orders or parenting changes where needed. 

What type of lawyer do I need for child custody in Ontario? 

You need a family lawyer in Ontario with specific experience in parenting disputes, including decision-making responsibility and parenting time. For high-conflict situations, experience in contested custody litigation matters most. Learn about Marcy Segal’s approach to child custody cases. 

When should I consult a child custody lawyer in Ontario? 

As early as possible — ideally before disputes escalate. Early legal advice shapes your strategy, protects you from early mistakes, and positions you effectively for negotiation or court. Contact Marcy Segal Law to discuss your situation. 

How do I file for custody in Ontario? 

To start a custody case in Ontario, you file an application with the family court outlining your proposed parenting arrangement and serve it on the other parent. The forms and process can become complex when there are disputes over parenting time, decision-making, or serious allegations. Working with a lawyer ensures your application is accurate, complete, and strategically positioned. 

Do I need a lawyer to resolve a child custody dispute in Ontario? 

You are not legally required to have a lawyer, but professional representation makes a meaningful difference — especially in contested or high-conflict matters. A lawyer can negotiate on your behalf, draft enforceable agreements, and advocate for your position in court. Even in cases you hope to resolve without litigation, legal guidance helps protect your rights and your child’s best interests. 

 

Child custody disputes are among the most personal and high-stakes matters in family law. Marcy Segal provides experienced, strategic representation in Toronto for parents navigating parenting disputes — including high-conflict cases where strong advocacy matters most. Reach out to discuss your situation.